Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Being a parent is hard ............

My DD is full of personality. I don't think she's ever had a problem fitting in. She walks up the play area at McDonalds and just starts playing with the kids. In gymnastics, she just walks in and immediately fits into the class. This is great ........ but in school, its not so great! She wants to worry about everyone else in her class, except her. She wants to make sure everyone is doing what they are suppse to do, except her. And she loves to talk (if you've known me all my life, you'd know I got in trouble for this in school also, as did DH and my parents ... we're all social!) and is a social butterfly. So, sometimes she doesn't listen very well and misses things, like, take home your social studies work, you're having a test in two days! So guess what, she failed that test! YUP, a F!!! And the problem in Metro schools (at least our 3rd grade class) is that they only do Social Studies for 3 weeks and then Science for 3 weeks. So if you make a big fat LOW F on a test, then you're pretty much dog meat when it comes to report cards. DD brought home a D in Social Studies!!! I lost it! I couldn't believe she made a D. I think I was in middle school before I ever brought home a D. So now what? DD is involved in cheerleading and gymnastics, things in which I pay for! So I hate to take her out or cause her to miss.... that costs me money! So she's grounded for 3 weeks, no cartoons, no Disney channel, no telephone, no playing after practice, no girlfriends coming over to play, and she might sit out 1/2 of the ball game Saturday (haven't decided) AND she had 3 pages of extra Math work on homework nights (she struggles in Math). Other than the D, she made two A's, a B and a C. AND she's reading on almost a 4th grade level (which is very good!) Whew, parenting is hardwork!!!

I've got a question for all of you who just might be reading...... when you go to a craft fair, do you care what kind of sack you get to carry you purchases in? If I plan to buy a lot, I usually take my own. But I'm trying to decide if I need to make a clear bag purchase for the employee craft fair, or just use "Walmart" bags. The albums I'll be making will be in ziploc bags for protection, but I've been told not to use Walmart bags, that looks cheap (which isn't what I'm going for, but I don't want to spend a ton on bags either), so what do you think?

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